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This sometimes feels like one hell of a choice, since you
can't pick just one of your friends to be your groomsman on
your dreamed day. Your best buddies, college roommates,
brothers, cousins, and even long-lost elementary school
friends may be vying for the coveted position of best man.
Asking someone to stand next to you on your wedding day is
an honor that is hard to equal. Typically, you want to make
your decisions nine to 10 months before the wedding. First,
you’ll want to decide with your fiancé the size of your
ideal wedding party. However, as with most wedding planning
decisions, it isn’t always an easy. For most men, the
question often becomes “Who should I ask?”
Most of the time you would try to pick groomsman not
taller than yourself. This is good for your visibility &
very much easy for
photographers &
videographers. But can
you filter your friends & aside just because they are fat or
taller than you? definitely "NO". Forget these myths when
choosing you groomsman, because the your real best man will
make the ceremony enjoyable & unforgettable for everyone.
Select the groomsmen who can relief your pressure in
wedding ceremony & deliver fun, fun, fun, not only for you,
for all the invitees.
-
Gayan
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Below are in the
order of our recommendation & my personal pick is first two. But
they should be able to entertain the invitees as well.
Brothers
Without question, if you have a brother, asking him to
be a part of the wedding party is a given. It’s often
expected that your brother will serve as Best Man. If you
have more than one brother, it’s also very common to have
two or more Best Men. Here you have no confusions & you
wouldn't even ask him to be the best man.
Your Fiance's Brother
Your fiancé’s brothers as the groomsman in the wedding
ceremony is also a very popular choice. It’s also widely
accepted as standard practice. You’ll be joining their
family on your wedding day, and asking them to be groomsmen
is a great way to welcome them into yours.
Friends
The tough decisions start when it comes to choosing
which friends to ask. It’s usually wisest to start with any
life-long friends you’ve had. You can also think about close
friends from high school and college. Sometimes you would
invite your new friends in your office to take place as the
groomsman. A very popular groomsman choice is the college
roommate.
Family
Cousins and nephews are also popular choices to add to
your wedding party as best men. Even if they’re young, you
always the option of having a junior groomsman or usher.
Other extended family members are also commonly asked to be
readers, greeters or ring bearers.
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